Have you ever felt tongue-tied talking about the state of your sex life with your partner? Do you ever wrestle with your own discomfort when thinking about sexual fantasies, eroticism, or porn? The truth is many of us haven’t developed the capacity to talk about sex in a way that opens up new possibilities and challenges the sense of shame and secrecy in which it’s often shrouded. In my work with individuals and couples, I've come to realize just how many of us are uncomforta